Reddit birth mother rejected me. I contacted her a total of two times over several months, each message introducing myself and making note that if she didn't want communication, to go ahead and let me know. Over the course of the next year, I sent 2 follow up emails to an account I thought might be hers. Sadly, he rejected it completely and told me not to contact him ever again. Rejected by birth mother I recently found my birth mother and her side of my family through DNA testing and research. She wouldn't acknowledge that she had given birth to me at all. Turns out my birth mother had abusive family members, birth father with her stepbrother, and it was just all-around traumatic for her. However lately, I don't even know if I'd want to talk to or see her if she one day changes her mind. But what if your dreams are shattered by a rejection? Here are some reasons why a birth parent might not want to be found, as well as some coping tips for adoptees. Has anyone ever won over a birth mom who fiercely rejected you? I knew the adoption was closed and that I was a product of… I see a lot of secondary rejection related posts here, specifically lamenting why the birth mom refused contact or reintegration into the family. When you begin your search for a birth parent, the possibilities are endless. iugbf7 qwv wm yspqj y1nws kbp uil wrdrx al sg